Chapter 8: The Garden in April
The winter passed quietly.
Dana came on Tuesdays.
Phillip came twice — once to fix a leaking pipe under the bathroom sink, once just to sit on the porch and drink coffee and talk about nothing in particular.
Robert called in December to confirm the estate had been fully settled.
I signed the last documents on a Thursday afternoon and drove home to Carver Street and made dinner.
I had started calling it home by then.
I wasn't sure exactly when that had happened.
In February, I called my friend Carol, who I hadn't spoken to properly in months.
"I need to tell you something," I said.
"About where I've been."
I told her everything.
Elliot.
The will.
The letters.
The house.
By the time I finished, she was quiet for a long moment.
"You went through all of that alone," she said.
"I had Dana and Phillip."
"You know what I mean."
"I know." I paused.
"I think I needed to.
I think I needed to understand it before I could explain it to anyone."
"Do you understand it?"
I thought about that honestly.
"I understand that he loved me," I said.
"I understand that he made a decision he thought was right and that it cost both of us something.
I understand that his family carried a weight they shouldn't have had to carry.
And I understand that I have a house with good bones and a bird feeder and a garden bed I haven't touched yet." I paused.
"The rest I'm still working on."
"That sounds like enough for now," Carol said.
"It is," I said.
"It really is."
She came to visit in March.
She stood on the front porch and looked at the maple tree and said, "I can see why you stayed."
In April, I planted the garden bed.
I didn't know much about gardening.
I bought a book.
I bought seeds — tomatoes, basil, something called a *mortgage lifter* that turned out to be a variety of tomato, which made me laugh when I read the label.
I turned the soil on a Saturday morning while Dana sat on the back step with coffee and told me I was doing it wrong.
"I'm doing it the way the book says."
"The book is wrong.
You need to go deeper."
"You garden?"
"My mother did.
I watched." She stood up and came over and took the trowel from my hand without asking.
"Like this."
She showed me.
I watched.
Then she handed the trowel back and returned to the step.
"He would have loved this," she said.
"He always wanted to use that bed.
He bought seeds two springs in a row and never got around to planting them."
"What kind of seeds?"
"Tomatoes, I think.
And something else.
Herbs."
I looked at the seed packets lined up along the edge of the bed.
"Basil," I said.
"That might have been it."
I planted the basil where the light was best, near the south end of the bed.
I planted the tomatoes in a line.
I planted a row of marigolds along the border because the book said they kept pests away, and because they were bright and I wanted something bright.
Phillip arrived at noon with sandwiches and sat on the porch while Dana and I finished.
"It looks good," he said, from a safe distance.
"You could help," Dana said.
"I'm helping by staying out of the way."
I sat back on my heels and looked at the garden bed.
The turned soil.
The small markers I'd made from popsicle sticks and a marker pen.
The marigold seedlings already showing a little color.
It looked like a beginning.
Dana sat back down on the step beside me.
"He would have been terrible at this," she said.
"He would have overwatered everything within a week."
"He overwatered a cactus."
"Exactly."
We both looked at the garden.
"Thank you," I said.
"For not burning the letter."
Dana was quiet for a moment.
"Thank you," she said, "for coming to Robert's office."
I looked at her.
"I mean it," she said.
"I was awful to you that first day.
And you came anyway.
And you read the letter out loud even though you didn't have to.
And you gave us — " She stopped.
Started again.
"You gave us a way back to him, somehow.
By being here.
By taking the house and doing something with it." She looked at the garden.
"He's in this, a little.
In you being here.
In this." She gestured at the bed.
"It helps."
I didn't answer right away.
Above us, the maple was budding — small green points of new growth along every branch.
"Same time next Tuesday?" I said.
Dana looked at me.
The corner of her mouth moved.
"Same time next Tuesday," she said.
Phillip called from the porch.
"Are we eating these sandwiches or not?"
We ate the sandwiches on the back step, the three of us, looking at the garden in the April light.
The bird feeder was full.
The sparrows came and went.
I had learned their names by then — the sparrows, and the small brown bird I hadn't recognized in the fall, which turned out to be a house finch.
I'd bought a field guide in January.
It sat on the kitchen windowsill next to the succulent, which was doing well.
I thought about Elliot carrying an umbrella for me.
The way he'd made it feel like the most natural thing in the world.
I thought: *I'm going to grow tomatoes this summer.
I'm going to learn what I'm doing.
I'm going to get it wrong a few times and then get it right.*
And then I stopped thinking and just sat in the sun with the people who had become, without any of us quite planning it, something like family.
The maple moved in the wind.
The finch landed on the feeder, looked around once, and stayed.
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Some people love us quietly — through the choices they make, the things they carry alone, and the small careful ways they try to protect us from pain.
Sometimes we only understand that love after they're gone.
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