The 70th Birthday Dinner
My son, Oliver, is seven.
He loves dinosaurs, soccer, and chocolate cake.
Until recently, he also loved visiting his grandmother more than almost anywhere else.
Last Sunday, we went to my mother-in-law Patricia’s 70th birthday dinner.
Twenty relatives crowded around her dining table.
Oliver had spent the afternoon making her a birthday card.
He kept it folded inside his little dinosaur backpack.
He wanted to give it to her after dessert.
When the cake arrived, Oliver leaned forward to take a slice.
Then he glanced at Patricia.
I noticed the hesitation but thought he was waiting for her to offer him a piece.
“Slow down, sweetheart!” she laughed. “You’re getting a little too curvy!”
A few relatives chuckled.
Oliver froze with his hand halfway to the plate.
He looked around the table, then slowly lowered his arm.
“Grandma, I’m not fat.”
His voice was so quiet that I barely heard him.
He tugged the bottom of his shirt down over his stomach and held it there with both hands.
Patricia laughed again.
“Oh, honey, look at that belly! You look six months pregnant!”
This time, Oliver didn’t answer.
He looked down at the cake he hadn’t touched.
I saw his fingers tightening around the hem of his shirt.
“Patricia, he’s seven,” I said. “Stop embarrassing him.”
“Oh, relax, Sarah. I’m only joking!”
My husband, David, put down his fork.
“Mom, can I ask you one question?”
“Of course, darling.”
“Why do you keep making jokes about Oliver’s stomach when you know what the doctor told us?”
Patricia’s smile disappeared.
“David, don’t.”
Three weeks earlier, Oliver had started complaining about stomachaches.
Our pediatrician was concerned about the swelling and ordered tests.
Oliver had undergone an ultrasound the previous afternoon.
We were waiting for the result.
Patricia knew all of this.
She had driven us to the first appointment.
David leaned forward.
“He’s frightened enough. Why would you make him feel worse?”
Patricia looked away.
Then Oliver pushed back his chair.
“Mommy, my tummy hurts again.”
I hurried to him.
His face had gone pale.
“Is it like last time?”
He shook his head.
“Worse.”
David knelt beside him.
Oliver grabbed his arm.
“Daddy, I feel funny.”
My phone rang.
I almost ignored it.
Then I saw our pediatrician’s number on the screen.
My stomach tightened.
Why would she be calling on a Sunday evening?
I answered with one hand still resting on Oliver’s shoulder.
“Hello?”
“Sarah, are you with Oliver right now?”
I looked down at my son.
He was clutching his father’s arm, his face pale.
“Yes. He’s in pain.”
“His scan showed something concerning. Take him straight to the emergency department. Don’t wait until morning.”
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David lifted Oliver into his arms before I had even hung up.
Nobody at the table said another word.
